Friday, July 4, 2014

Conversation with a Stranger



We both pressed the ‘G’ button in the lift, while sharing a 'hi' smile with a momentary eye contact.  I am generally reserved when it comes to talking to strangers except when they pull up a conversation.

“Goin fo lunch? he asked in his Chinese English accent.
“Haiyya” I replied showing off my Cantonese.
The lift door closed.

Veli hot outsigh he said, adjusting the bunch of lunch boxes he was carrying bearing address slips.
“You deliver? I asked the obvious question to be sure.
“Yes, yes” said he, wiping his forehead.

 “25th floor. Yee sap m lau – Computer-generated voice interrupted.

“You so old. You still work?” I couldn’t stop intriguing.
“For my grandson he murmured.
“You should take rest at home. No more work lah!” I said expressing compassion.
“Life difficult. It is OK lah!” said he smilingly, summing it up as concisely as possible, carrying a reflection of his life.

I don’t know if his last statement signified acceptance or revolt or an emotion voicing his defeat. I don’t even know if he had fought enough.
But I respect him for gracefully honoring the struggle that was meant to be his.

Sometimes, strangers mysteriously spill the beam of light that you had been contesting for, for decades. Don’t they?


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  1. In the midst of hate, I found there was, within me, an invincible love.
    In the midst of tears, I found there was, within me, an invincible smile.
    In the midst of chaos, I found there was, within me, an invincible calm.
    I realized, through it all, that…
    In the midst of winter, I found there was, within me, an invincible summer.
    And that makes me happy. For it says that no matter how hard the world pushes against me, within me, there’s something stronger – something better, pushing right back.

    Truly yours,
    Albert Camus ( The Stranger)

    Nothing happens by chance, my friend... No such thing as luck. A meaning behind every little thing, and such a meaning behind this. ~ Richard Bach


    To a Stranger

    PASSING stranger! you do not know how longingly I look upon you,
    You must be he I was seeking, or she I was seeking, (it comes to me, as of a dream,)
    I have somewhere surely lived a life of joy with you,
    All is recall’d as we flit by each other, fluid, affectionate, chaste, matured,
    You grew up with me, were a boy with me, or a girl with me,
    I ate with you, and slept with you—your body has become not yours only, nor left my body mine only,
    You give me the pleasure of your eyes, face, flesh, as we pass—you take of my beard, breast, hands, in return,
    I am not to speak to you—I am to think of you when I sit alone, or wake at night alone,
    I am to wait—I do not doubt I am to meet you again,
    I am to see to it that I do not lose you.
    ~ Walt Whitman

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